On The Human Condition

Why did you do that? So many possibilities in answering this question. And sometimes this question comes in rather hot, with emphasis. Hear it in a parent's tone, or from an upset partner for example. "Uh, not sure." "What?" "Yes, I meant to do that and I'd do it again." "The devil made me do it." Or the inquiry comes in with curiosity, and appreciation or amazement. The capacity we have for action, words or deeds is a remarkable skill. We exist, we think, we feel and we can act, just not always in that order. We sometimes attribute certain functions of our being with certain body parts. I've heard this quip referenced in various forms, "You have a body and its purpose isn't just to tote your head around from place to place." That's an invitation to do more than think, wonder, daydream – it's an invitation to action. Frequently something I heard as I was working construction jobs as I made my way through high sch...

How are you feeling? We have feelings, and they come to us in two forms: physical sensations, and the more complicated blend we call emotions. Our sensory system is remarkably effective at prompting us toward action, usually around our physical needs. You are thirsty, and your body tells you so — parched lips, a dry throat, even a headache. Hunger works in a similar way. So does our need for sleep, or the quiet signal that it's time to find a bathroom. More direct pain does this too: it lets you know to pull back from whatever is causing it. It's a feedback system. You act, the signal has done its job, and the discomfort resolves. When sensations are milder — numb, tingly, too hot or too cold, tired, hungry — there's often room to simply notice and wait before doing anything at all. Sometimes, if a disturbance persists, the natural next step is a visit to the medical doctor, whether that's your primary care physician, urgent care, or the emergency room, depending on the...